2012's Sexy

Good Morning....

Well, as I write, we are at 1,099 views for the page... This growth is AMAZING and honestly, I am so thankful to each and every one of you who tune in daily to the blog.... Now, how to increase traffic to the site, let me get on my "ra-search" lol

Last night of The Game.. ehh, that dang Tasha Mack is being OUTDONE (yes, I said outdone by Jason Pitts) His freestyles were hilar!!!!

"J.Pity. All the ladies feel me. I'm so witty. I brought a ring to the city...." #ICantNOTHandleHim

Anyway, I will lay off The Game and get to the topic at hand.. I got a text request to write about what's SEXY in 2012.... Ooooohh, me likey, me likey... *e-clap*

Well, you know how much I like clear cut understandings and universal meanings, so let's define sexy, shall we?

Let's ask ourselves - What Is Sexy? Part 1
Sexy - Is the confidence and self-esteem exuding from one; does not have any direct correlation with one's physical attractiveness; can be defined as one's swag; the intangible certain 'something' that draws you to be attracted to somebody else..

So, now that we have defined sexy.. Let's talk about what is sexy..

Let's ask ourselves - What is Sexy? Part 2

For a woman, sexy is wearing clothes that fit, flatter and compliment her shape and femininity. It's wearing a nice scent that doesn't overpower the office and offends somebody's allergies. Sexy can be working out in the morning. Sexy can be a confident smile. Sexy is internal and shines through the external. Sexy is embedded in your DNA and sometimes it is a learned behavior.

For a man, sexy can be a nice fitted suit. Sexy can be confidence in your career. Sexy is focus, being loyal and honesty. Sexy is being ready for life. Sexy is not half-naked. Sexy is a state of mind. For the men I know, sexy is an afterthought, because it is second nature.

Generally speaking, sexy is showing off what works for you and makes you feel good. Sexy is not trashy. Sexy is not crass. Sexy is classy. Sexy is elegant. Sexy is humility. Sexy is endearing. Sexy is magnetic. Sexy is doing you: Nobody can show you how to do you but you.

Let's ask ourselves - What is NOT Sexy

Mmm, it's a lot of DIRECT examples of what is not sexy....

- Arrogant
- Cheap
- Body Odor/ Poor Hygiene
-NO Sense of Humor
- No Financial Independence (no plan/route either)
- No Goals
- No Purpose
- Lack of Focus
- Afraid of Living Life / Taking Chances
- Lack of 'Emo'
- Insensitive
- Bad Weave
- Being physically unfit
- Being a skank

Well, I hope that we are all clear on what is and what is not sexy....

Let's ask ourselves - How can I be sexy?

Learn more about yourself.. Learn what makes you happy and what doesn't. If it helps, make a list of Pros and Cons to define your happiness if you are a bit confused or overwhelmed. Make sure that you are being honest and start the process of finding your "happy." You can't be sexy unless you are TRULY happy with yourself. Even if you are not satisfied, be content with the progress and make a goal that you can strive for.

Happiness + Confidence + Humility - Ego = SEXY

What do you think? What is sexy? How do you define sexy? How do you personify sexy? Can sexy be a learned behavior?

Until next time bookies and bookettes....