A Real Lady

Good Morning All..

A Special S/O to all of the people who really enjoyed yesterday's blog topic.. Today we are switching the shoe and taking a look at a "real lady" defined, inside and out..

First- What is a real lady?

A real lady is somebody who always know that the love she has and displays for herself is something that exceeds the price of any jewel. She is of "noble character", exactly like the woman described in Proverbs 31. She knows her worth and the worth of others. She defiantly identifies her "intimate goody parts" and her body as her temple and not that of a "hole in a wall" or a doorknob (everyone should not get a turn - As Jay Z said, "It ain't for everybody!"). She also is educated, financially independent, strong, classy and balanced. She is a woman of God, through and through. She knows that no man walking this Earth defines her existence. She is aware of her beauty and confident in her being herself.

Second- What does a real lady expect from the dating world?

A real lady should always expect to be treated with class, courtesy and respect at all times. She should expect a man to court her with chivalry and honesty. She understands that commitment and trust is to be earned and not given away freely. She also is aware that every guy she meets will not be familiar with these ways and sometimes, it is ok to show a man the way, especially if he is willing to learn and apply his new found knowledge.

A real lady is also aware that the words "guy" and "male" does not equate with the word "man". I will say this again: A real lady is also aware that the words "guy" and "male" does not equate with the word man. That's so nice, I had to say it twice :-D Every "guy" and "male" should not be granted an opportunity at getting to know and date you, especially if he is not ready to elevate his dating game to manhood by a courtship.. Please let that ish marinate..

Third- Why isn't every female a lady by nature?

Again, I am ecstatic that you asked this question. "Female" is not synonymous with "lady". I repeat: "Female" is not synonymous with "lady". Female merely means you have the plumbing for procreation, working or not. Females are born, ladies are developed and matured over time, like a fine wine. [S/O to wine lol- sorry, I couldn't help it!] Ladies know the difference between right and wrong, ladies make mistakes, but they are woman enough to admit when they are wrong and ready to rectify the situation and mend any offenses. A female lies at all costs to cover up her shortcomings. A lady is strong enough to be confident in her own skin, while commending other ladies on their strides as well. A female oozes with jealousy and always claims her "haters" are on her head at all times. A lady can accept her shortcomings and always strive to be better. A female looks at her shortcomings and is content with them being the status quo.

That is my take on the sit-chee-ay-shun..

What do you guys think? Are females and ladies one in the same? Are females asking for too much? Do you think females are not asking for enough? What ever happened to Girl Power and all that Jazz? IJS.. Le Sigh

Until next time, DEUCES and JUICES lol